How it works

Dating with intention.

Three simple moves, Crush, Wink and a first hi, and every one of them means something. Here's the whole thing, start to finish.

Read, then crush.

Discover shows one person at a time. Browse as much as you like, it's free. When someone feels right, send a Crush.

5 crushes and 5 winks a day
They reset at midnight where you live. With Crushr or Winkr your lane refills +1 every 2 hours once empty; with Duo both refill every hour.
Super Crush
Stand out: they get a notification right away, outside their quiet hours. Everyone starts with 1.
Your hard no's work for you
They quietly keep people who don't fit out of your Discover. If someone outside one of them tries to crush on you, they see a gentle heads-up first.

Everyone who crushed on you waits in your Crushes tab. Seeing them never costs anything, unlike other apps.

Break their glass first
Hear their 15-second voice or video intro before you decide, free in Crushes.
Wink to say yes
A Wink is the green light. Not feeling it? Blink, and they're never told.

After a Wink, the person who crushed sends the first message within 3 days (5 with Duo). The moment they do, it's a match. No rush, just intention.

No countdowns
Gentle reminders, never ticking timers.
Every profile verified
Every member takes a live selfie, checked against their photos.

Join the waitlist and we'll tell you when Crushwink opens near you.